Wives, Would it turn you off if your man surprised you ?

with a new sex toy and lingerie? My wife got really mad because I bought her a Hitachi Magic Wand Massager and she was pissed because the reviews had a bunch of woman saying how awesome sex was and she thought that was perverted of me.

Sounds like to me that her anger is just misplaced emotion. Is it possible that she was not actually angry but in fact, embarrassed or insecure? Many women feel that masturbation is a personal and guilty pleasure. Actually admitting it is embarrassing. And when faced with tool that is connected to masturbation-even though it sounds like you wanted to introduce it into your sex play-may have made her embarrassed or insecure. She may even interpreted the gesture to mean that you are not satisfied with your sex life as it is.

I recommend lots of loving neck kisses and non sexual yet intimate gestures to warm her up and then a delicate conversation about wanting to make her feel more during sex. Explain that you love her so much that seeing her in the throws of orgasm makes you that much more excited. Go about it that way and see what happens.

Oh, and I loved Honesty’s answer.

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